hey ya'll!
i have been lurking for years on this site and others but never had the courage to post anything.
actually i was afraid of posting on an apostate site in the event i was wrong.
Welcome.
He will be removed as an elder, surprising he hasn't been already, under the predicament of how can he direct the flock when he cannot even direct his household efficiently.
Many like you and I are trapped in due to not wanting to lose family and friends. You are brave, though; most of us just continue to fake it and it is quite taxing mentally at times. Congratulations on your courage.
DY
>>the bible reveals that jehovah issaddened when people pursue a wick-ed course and ‘the inclination of theirthoughts is only bad all the time.’ (readgenesis 6:5, 6.
) from this we can per-ceive that sexual fantasizing is wrongbecause it can lead to serious sin that isforbidden in the scriptures and is out ofharmony with jehovah’s way of think-ing.the disciple james wrote: “the wis-dom from above is first of all pure, thenpeaceable, reasonable, ready to obey,full of mercy and good fruits, impar-tial, not hypocritical.” (jas.
3:17) beingaware of this, we should be moved toreject entertainment that fuels impurethoughts and inclinations.
It is part of our imperfect human condition+ It is so much fun!!! 😜
DY
if anyone had to guess, what do you think the average age of the community actually is?.
are more millennials actually waking up or is it pretty even amongst previous generations as well?
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I am a 'boomer'. The generation that is definitely passing away.🤔
DY
just in case someone wanted this letter for their records.
.. http://postimg.org/image/dn44a9m9h/.
.. petra!.
And just like that, with the reading of this "new light", anyone that dares not be joyful to the point of applause will be looked at with suspicion or even questioned as to why they are not happy that a person came back to the fold.
Ohhhhhh the ever-changing WTBTS.🙄
DY
i propose that we make pintrest accounts and start openly challenging this crap.. .
seriously.... any suggestions?
this crap cannot be left unchallenged.
The WWW is doing enough. Relax.😎
DY
i was raised as a witness and am very thankful that i am out.
having said that, i think my upbringing produced positive qualities in me.
do you believe that anything positive came from your being a witness?
Much. Helped me develop great public speaking abilities. Also, whatever the reason, helped me to abstain from smoking, drug use and alcohol abuse, or disfiguring/mutilating myself with tattoos/piercings.
Everytime I watch those smoke quitting or drug rehab commercials it is impossible to deny the positive effect that the WTBTS people clean.
Add to that conflict resolution in marriage and other social interactions.
A very inconvenient truth for this forum obviously. No situation is all bad.
DY
have you heard that old chestnut?
i have.. typically it's the last resort when you have dismantled a jws beliefs and they have no way of defending them.
they know they are beat so they come out with that one.. its effectively an admission that you are right and they have no argument but they are still going to attend meetings because they like the social club.. what a lame way to defend your faith..
Well, Simon...
It is definitely a consolation when all other reasons are lost. Even knowing TTATT, I really enjoy my social click and interactions inside the Org.
Having been conditioned/indoctrinated since birth presents a personality molded to a certain degree where anything else is so foreign that it is literally uncomfortable.
Believe me, I have tried social interactions with non-JWs, mainly co-workers and it just doesn't work out for me. The minute the drunken behavior, fowl language, smoking, excessive displays of affection (loose sexual conduct), you know, the "anything goes" behavior begins at social events of non-JWs I just need to leave. It is not how I was raised, not who I would ever aspire to be.
Conditioning/indoctrination runs the deepest.
DY
a exfriend of mine gave his first public talk and that was the title.
wasn't that the title of an awake in 1969?
if so, talk about rehashing an old title.
Than, not then.📖
DY
a while back, a local witness lost their home in a fire.
an announcement was made at the meeting that if anybody wanted to contribute, they could do so through their service group overseer.
my guess is that this arrangement is meant to bring tears of joy to the eyes of the impoverished one, and thankfulness to "jehovah's organization.
Now there is a fact ShirleyW!!!
DY
im new here, so go easy with me!
just wanted to know if any one has any idea's or personal experience in regard to drug and alcohol abuse in former jw's.
all the one's i know have just lost the plot when it comes drugs and alcohol, especially drug use.
A large percentage, most I have known in the past, do throw the baby out with the bath water; becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy for sure.
I cannot explain why that happens, but it certainly does in many cases. In these instances, it would've been more beneficial for these types to have remained JWs.
DY
